Family Mediation
Mediation is a way to reach agreement concerning your finances, the children, and sometimes both.
It usually involves a series of meetings with a qualified family mediator - who is quite likely to be a family law solicitor.
All discussions that take place during mediation are confidential and are not allowed to be referred to in any Court proceedings.
Mediation is a voluntary, independent process and you can choose to opt in or out at any time. It runs in parallel to the Court process, where you both instruct an independent mediator who assists in your discussions and negotiations to guide you to a resolution.
You and your partner / spouse will often have your own solicitor advising on aspects of your case that may need further investigating and settlement proposals.
Over the course of a number of mediation sessions, your proposed settlement terms will be carefully considered, and the mediator will help by giving independent input to help to facilitate settlement. The mediator is not allowed to give legal advice to either party.
If the mediation results in an agreement then your solicitors will draw up a consent order for you to sign. This is usually lodged at the Court without the need for your attendance.
Family mediation to help you reach agreement
When a relationship comes to an end, many couples want to find a constructive way forward — particularly when children or finances are involved. However, reaching agreement can feel overwhelming without support.
Family mediation provides a calm, neutral space where you and your former partner can work through difficult issues with the guidance of a highly trained, independent mediator.
Our aim is to help you move forward with clarity, dignity and practical solutions that work for everyone involved.
What is family mediation?
It involves you and your partner meeting together with a qualified family mediator to discuss and resolve the issues arising from your separation.
The mediator does not take sides or make decisions for you. Instead, they help guide conversations, ensure both voices are heard and support you in exploring realistic and fair outcomes.
If you reach an agreement, this can be recorded in a written summary. While this is not legally binding in itself, it can be converted into a legally binding agreement if you wish.
The role of the mediator
The mediator’s role is to support open, respectful communication and help keep discussions focused and productive. They will:
Encourage constructive dialogue
Help clarify the key issues between you
Explore possible options and compromises
Support you in working towards a mutually acceptable outcome
You remain in control of all decisions throughout the process and we will advise you in the background so that you are properly prepared for each mediation session.
What can mediation help with?
Mediation can be used to resolve a wide range of family matters, including:
Arrangements for children, such as where they will live and how much time they will spend with each parent
Decisions about education and other important aspects of a child’s life
Financial arrangements following separation or divorce
Housing and property matters
The process is flexible and can be tailored to suit your individual circumstances.
Why choose family mediation?
Many people find mediation to be a more supportive and practical alternative to Court proceedings.
Key benefits include:
Greater control
You and your partner choose the mediator and remain in charge of the decision-making
Flexible and personalised
The process is shaped around your needs and priorities
Cost-effective
Mediation is often significantly less expensive than going to court
Time efficiant
Mediation can take place at any stage, even if court proceedings have already begun
Confidential
Discussions remain private, offering discretion and peace of mind
Longer-lasting outcomes
Agreements reached together are often more sustainable than those imposed by the Court
How we can help
We are highly experienced and sensitive to the emotional challenges that separation can bring.
We create a safe, supportive environment where you can have meaningful discussions and work towards achieving practical solutions that work for you and your family both now and in the future.
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